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What is the safest way to have anal sex with a female?

November 14th, 2008 · 6 Comments · Anal Sex, Sex Questions


Alonzo L asked:

I don’t believe in the myth that anal sex is nasty and unsafe because alot of people are doing it and some females and male like it.And I don’t believe that only gay males have anal sex because that is not true.Straight guys have anal sex with their females who wear a strapon

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  • 1 Yodastattoo // Nov 16, 2008 at 11:45 am

    Always use a condom and lots of lube. Make sure you go slow - it’s best to let her control the penetration at least a first to take it all in.

  • 2 DaGreek // Nov 19, 2008 at 4:54 pm

    wear a condom,use good lubrication-start slow….dont just slam it in-its gonna tear her..slowly till shes open-then anything goes

  • 3 Dan G // Nov 24, 2008 at 8:12 pm

    Safest way to have anal sex is the same as the safest way to have sex - which is not having any. But that’s not really any fun.

    So seriously. A condom is a must. For obvious STD prevention and health reasons. Also, the anus isn’t made for sex… and not every girl is comfortable and ready to let their man in there. It’s important to go very slow. Use tons of water-based lube (KY or Astroglide) and start with a finger or something small. When she’s used to that… move on to bigger and better things. Don’t force anything… pain is bad.

    Also… make sure the anus is your last stop. The bacteria from the anus can cause nasty infections if it is introduced to the vagina. So. Don’t go from the back door to the front. That’s a super no no.

  • 4 Sky H // Nov 27, 2008 at 5:04 am

    Condom and lots of lube they already told you. Also use patience. Lots of it.

    Don’t go into her as you might have seen in porn movies. Stick the head of your penis only and wait, wait, wait. Ask her to breathe deep and turn off her mind. Let her relax. If it works, she will get used to it, then you can push a little deeper. And so it goes. If at any moment she wants to stop it, don’t insist.

  • 5 zaldor // Nov 28, 2008 at 3:57 am

    I would say it is safest with your willy, but then again there are some freaky gals out there!

  • 6 hopping not // Nov 28, 2008 at 1:26 pm

    id say to go in there stick it in here and keep going if she says stop keep going and in a min. she will be fine. But i am a little drunk right now.

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