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• 1 42 // Nov 13, 2008 at 11:51 am

  you need painkiller to get pleasure? weired concept….
  either you stand the pain - or you leave it…
  if you do it right there is not too much pain in it anyway….

• 2 Vinny B // Nov 18, 2008 at 8:12 am

  YOur better off just using alot of lube. All anesthetics come with a risk, especially when not used by a professional.

• 3 sassymamma // Nov 18, 2008 at 5:51 pm

  pain killers.

• 4 Sharlala // Nov 18, 2008 at 10:24 pm

  There are specialty lubes just for anal that include that already. Go to your local friendly sex shop and pick some up. And too, as an FYI, she shouldn’t feel too much pain later on….

• 5 sexymama20 // Nov 24, 2008 at 4:42 pm

  There isn’t any, lol. It is better to go very slow and increase over time. This way it will only hurt the first couple of times and then turn into pleasure. Tip: You can ease the pain by playing with a different part at the same time.

• 6 darthbouncy // Nov 25, 2008 at 3:41 am

  You could use something similar to the stuff for toothaches. However, are you sure your girl wants to try anal or is she doing it to make you happy?
  I think you should check out:
  for more information. Anal sex should not hurt. If it hurts, something is wrong. Going slow with lots of lube and not doing it after a painful bowel movement are keys to making it fun and hot for both parties.

• 7 James // Nov 28, 2008 at 12:04 am

  An anesthetic for anal sex? First time I’ve heard of that!

  Just use LOTS of lube, and she must be relaxed, otherwise of course it’s going to hurt!

• 8 Tina B // Nov 28, 2008 at 3:21 pm

  There is a product called Pleasure Balm. It is edible. Tastes kinda like spearmint. It can be used for what you need and can also be applied to the man, let it dry and it will make him last longer cause it numbs him Good Luck! Oh, you can buy it at Pleasure Parties, some adult stores or order it off the net.

• 9 joshman // Nov 30, 2008 at 8:43 am

  pain for pleasure….. I think thats an oxymoron

• 10 dale6956 // Dec 1, 2008 at 7:21 pm

  Me and my girlfriend don’t use any because we are used to it not and it does feel good. Start off using some type of lube though the first time or two.

• 11 Imahlah // Dec 5, 2008 at 7:09 am

  Well……..I think that you should really try to stop her from doing it, but should she really want to, she should use the bathroom a day before or take an enema. There is also something called booty ease. Sold on a website called pure romance I think. Anyway, it numbs the anal area so that she feels very little or no pain at all. Use it a few minutes before intercouses. Of course she will have a bit of discomfort after but very little. Good luck with that.

• 12 quinnn // Dec 8, 2008 at 1:23 pm

  The best is time. Finger play, tongue play, toy play and lots of lube prior to anal sex is the best way to get ready for it.

  Using anesthetic is dangerous. Numbing the area can hide the pain if something goes wrong.

  And please, remember to use condoms.

• 13 Sarah G // Dec 10, 2008 at 11:37 am

  To begin with, the pain is minimal. You have to take it slow. have her get on top and slowly take you into her anus. the key is to go slowly, no matter how relaxed you are the anus will tense up at first but will losen as you go. She will probably want to lose a few inhibitions before hand, so give her a couple drinks or if you please smoke a joint! Also…

  never switch from the anus to the vagina without changing condoms! there is a lot of nasty bacteria in there that could cause her problems!!

  Have fun and be careful!!

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