SexPress Yourself

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• 1 tabby90 // Mar 18, 2010 at 11:38 am

  Have you asked her what you could improve on? Maybe that would start a dialogue where you can be honest with her.

• 2 dinny // Mar 19, 2010 at 11:39 am

  i think that’s an awesome idea! It shows that you really care, and she’s gotta love you for that!!

• 3 Chris O // Mar 22, 2010 at 8:49 pm

  Did that with my GF and her skills greatly improved. People generally wish to give their partner the greatest pleasure possible and if you’re offering her help in doing so, most women I know are appreciative.

  BTW, keep the twins groomed if you want her down there.

• 4 Ask M // Mar 25, 2010 at 12:46 pm

  forget the video, TELL her what you would like !!!!

• 5 patstovan // Mar 27, 2010 at 12:13 am

  i’d talk to her about it when she’s ‘doing her thing to you’
  tell her what you like and see if she does it to you. but remember, you have have to up the ante yourself when you do things to please her.
  the video thing would not be cool in my book.
  its like your trying to teach her, its insulting to do that in my opnion.

• 6 val c // Mar 30, 2010 at 12:00 am

  Try talking to her first.

  If you moan and act as if everything is ok, she will think you like it and continue doing it.

  Don’t insult her by getting an oral technique video BEFORE you even give her a hint she may be doing it wrong.

• 7 QWERTY // Apr 1, 2010 at 1:26 am

  So you’re doing oral with your twin kids in the same room? There’s something not right about that.

• 8 pplz1st // Apr 2, 2010 at 5:31 pm

  ask before you get it

• 9 Spider // Apr 3, 2010 at 6:20 am

  Ask her to get involved by doing a complete shave. Also get a good Adult video. These days most of the male stars have shaved and a lot of attention is given to the twins both with hands and orally

• 10 beth v // Apr 6, 2010 at 2:33 pm

  try asking her if everything you do satisfies you and see if she ask the same. Then tell her what you would like her to do…

• 11 craz34jason // Apr 7, 2010 at 9:48 am

  I think that your girl would be offended. I’m not sure what type of a girl she is, though. Why don’t you just watch it yourself, and then when you’re at it, tell her how to do it, and moan when you really like how she does it.

  Or you can just shove her head down there, since she’ll think it’s an aggressive foreplay.

  Or perhaps, you need to clean out your member or groom it up. Maybe that’s why she doesn’t give you enough oral.

  Either way, good luck! =)

• 12 Gemini =) // Apr 9, 2010 at 12:46 pm

  I would be a little offended by the tape. I would honestly be WAY more into it if the guy just told me what to do on the spot. Take her hand and put it where you want it…or tell her what to do. You can talk…you don’t have a mouth full. ; ) When she does something that you like…let her know how good it feels and she’ll be wanting to please you more! Good luck!

• 13 Lindsey // Apr 10, 2010 at 9:36 am

  It depends on the girl. If it were me… I would get offended because that would just spell out the fact thatI’m not good enough…

• 14 BabeHeart // Apr 13, 2010 at 2:43 am

  Have you addressed the issue with her, that you’d like her to pay more attention to your “twins”? If not, then you’ve no reason to complain…COMMUNICATION is the key.

  If you’ve asked her to, or told her you’d like that, and she’s ignored your request, then it may be she doesn’t dig ‘em. It’s okay not to like something sexual…

  Re: the “how to” video, I wouldn’t have an issue with it. Although I’ve been participating in sexual activities for many years, there’s always something new we can learn or be reminded of. If there’s something my partner would like me to try, or do differently, I hope he’d let me know. ☺

• 15 Monroe // Apr 13, 2010 at 8:08 pm

  Dont be afraid to talk to her, seriously when my hubby first asked me to play with the twins i was doing the deed and he just kindly asked me to touch them. Ive been doing it ever since. Dont be afraid to talk or laugh during sex, especially if she does something that she thinks is embarrassing laugh it will make her feel better

• 16 BK // Apr 14, 2010 at 9:43 am

  Well, depends how long you’ve been dating, and what type of person she is. If some guy whipped out a video on oral sex and we’d only been dating a month or two, then I’d probably get up, walk out, and never come back.

  However, if you have been dating her for a while, it would probably be best if you just talked to her about the issue, rather than giving her a video tutorial. Or, you could indicate with your movements, etc. during oral sex that you’d like her to pay more attention to “the twins”.

  Another thing is this: for god’s sakes, ensure that you are shaved and CLEAN if you want her to pay more attention to the twins. After all, this area can be a turnoff to some women without it being all hairy and smelly to boot.

• 17 regina // Apr 20, 2010 at 7:36 am

  Not knowing your girlfirend that would be hard to say. I personal don’t think I would like my guy doing this. If there is something else you want her to do. I would just shave the twins and tell her to look what you did for her. And they would like to feel her soft lips there. That would do it for me more than showing me a video.
  Showing her the video might have a negative effect on her she may think you must hate what she is doing and stop doing anything to you.

• 18 Nancy C // Apr 22, 2010 at 9:50 am

  You should talk to her about it. I know this conversation can be awkward but the benefits in the end far outweigh any discomfort. Plus it will bring you much closer together. I would start the conversation like “I really like it when you do this but can you do this as well”. Make it positive. Tell her what you like and what you want to try and in turn encourage her to do the same. Good luck

• 19 sequins // Apr 25, 2010 at 12:57 am

  First, get the kids out of the room! Geeze! But don’t show any videos, I think that is kind of nervy. Communication is the key here!

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