I am soooo sick of my wife not wanting to have sex. We have been married for over 15 years and I am always the one having to do everything. Even when I do I have heard the word “NO” so many freaking times I hate that word. If I had .0001 cent every time she told me no I would be a billionaire.
Thing is she gets orgasms, she seems like she enjoys it when we do, so why wouldn’t she want it more? I have ready sooo many blog posts and squidoo lenses about women wishing there husbands would have sex with them. They have sex maybe once a month if they are lucky. My wife can have it whenever she wants and she chooses to have it once a week only cause she knows I want it. If it was fully up to her it would be once a month.
Well, its about to happen. From here on out I am making a pledge that I will NEVER ask or initiate my current wife for sex ever again.
And when she wants it I’m going to put no feeling or emotion in and just let her pussy pound my cock and when she’s done I can go on with my day.
She never tries to be sexy anymore, she never dresses up to go on dates, she hates oral sex and won’t swallow or even let it cum in her mouth. She won’t do anal, she hates doggy, she hates any sex position that isn’t missionary or her on top. She hates french kissing, or even kissing in general unless it’s a peck. So why have I spend 15 years trying to get her to like it???
I always thought when you got married you would satisfy each others sexual needs along with all your needs. We both grew up virgins, at least she tells me she was but I don’t think she was, so I waited to have sexual relations with the women of my dreams and it’s been a waste. I love sex and I have such high hopes and dreams of how it should be, and it never will be. It’s so depressing.
I wish I could of met a women who had the same level of sexual interest as myself. Take note to all you single people out there. Before you lock yourself in, make certain you are sexually compatible. If your already having sex then you should know, but if your not and waiting for the big day then you need to talk about it. Ask detailed questions of what each others expectations are. What they are willing and NOT willing to do. That information would of saved me from a lot of painful, depressing, non sexual years that I could of been living up with someone else.
Anyone else have issues with this? Husband or wife rejecting you? Are you wanting to have sex more? Leave a reply.
Here’s to more sex!
Jake R.
4 responses so far ↓
1 John // Feb 4, 2012 at 12:03 pm
I’ve been in your same situation. I told her if she’s not willing to give it to me I would get it on the side. She was fine with that. We actually have a better relationship now and I get all the sex I want. Try that.
Alex
2 Women need sex 2 // Feb 4, 2012 at 12:09 pm
Speaking for us women out their, we need sex to men!! Sorry your wife doesn’t have it in her to satisfy you. I on the other hand give my husband blow jobs and swallow, I do any position he wants, he puts on a strapon and gives me it up my puss and ass at the same time and I love it. My problem is he can’t keep up with me. He enjoys it all, but his drive is lower than mine so it’s very frustrating. I masturbate the days we don’t have sex which is fun, but there is nothing better than sucking a cock while getting fingered or just laying there and letting him f*** the lights out of me. I hope she comes around for you, sex is so much fun!
3 admin // Sep 5, 2012 at 3:02 pm
This is some good advice if this is the type of relationship you want. I know to others this won’t fly, but it can be a solution. I appreciate your thoughts and comment and hope it helps someone with your same situation.
4 admin // Sep 5, 2012 at 3:03 pm
Wow!! Where have you been my whole life!!! You are correct, women need sex as well. For some reason it seems women just aren’t interested in their men. Is this lack of sexual desire or is it deeper than that and lack of love or respect? I think all women and men should act like you and rock it!!
Leave a Comment