Jewels asked:
Me and My husband are really going crazy. I’ve gotten my body back for the most part, and I still have four weeks to go on the whole no sex allowed thing after giving birth to our new little girl. I was wondering if it would be safe to have anal sex until I’m allowed to have vaginal again? lol. I know its a funny question, I just don’t know! I really want to be intimate with my husband though. Help.
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11 responses so far ↓
1 Tink - baby // Nov 14, 2008 at 11:25 pm
yeah i cant see why not.. unless u had an episiotomy?
2 Bee // Nov 16, 2008 at 9:27 am
Lol, you must be very feisty, I wouldn’t have let anyone near me with a bargepole haha!!
I would guess that, if you didn’t tear, you’d be fine, but I’d say if you had anything over a 2nd degree tear maybe leave it or ask your doctor!
Edit* Don’t forget the good old clitoris!
3 # 2 due on 3/4/09 <33 // Nov 16, 2008 at 11:48 am
Yes it’s safe as long it does not hurt you it’s should be fine go for it! but just take a easy and careful.
4 dylans.sarah // Nov 17, 2008 at 9:01 am
Sure as long as you arent experiencing any hemorrhoid symptoms (soreness or light bleeding from rectum)
I only waited 10 days until I had sex after baby (no tears or episiotomy)
because we were going crazy! This time I will wait a bit longer.
go slow be gentle have fun!!!!
5 Mrs. Mary // Nov 23, 2008 at 2:48 am
I don’t see why not, but I also know that you don’t HAVE to wait 6 weeks. It really is up to you if you are comfortable. After my first we waited 4 weeks and after my second we didn’t even wait 2 weeks.
6 ZeeLee // Nov 24, 2008 at 12:13 pm
still be gentle, and ensure you clean up well afterwards. the main reason for no sex is so you don’t get an infection. so, take care of any wounds on the outside!
7 soon2b mummy < 10/7/08 > // Nov 26, 2008 at 11:12 am
Wow your brave lol There is no reason why you cant do it though… i couldnt imagine it would be too comfortable but thats up to you. To be honest if you feel ok to have ‘normal’ sex then i dont see the problem… i know a lady that only waited 3 weeks after birth - although she did get pregnant again only 3 weeks after lol ouch!
As long as you feel comfortable and everyhting isnt too tender down there- go for it!
8 alexanders and ? mama // Nov 27, 2008 at 12:10 am
You can have sex earlier. If you feel up to it then go for it. We did and it was really kind of painful but not horrible. I had the worst hemorrhoids ever so that wasn’t happening here.
9 clawdia1978 // Nov 28, 2008 at 11:38 am
I don’t see why not, with our first I had an episiotomy, labial and internal stitches, couldn’t wait for much longer than a week so we did, just be careful.
10 ManOfTheHour // Nov 29, 2008 at 6:55 pm
Go for it. The kid came out your vj, not your butt.
11 Roberto J // Dec 2, 2008 at 3:23 am
gooid question, i would ask the doc
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