tanuhottie69 asked:
hi frens.i am a 21 yrs old girl having a bf.we r getting married in a few months,we hv sex many times,but wht i hate is anal sex which my bf always insists for.Now wht to do,he has been trying for it from 6 months but i am not allowing it.He says it is exciting but i think i am not ready for this as i am very scared of this as i hv heard of many things abt it.Now wht to do..pls help!
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18 responses so far ↓
1 angel_again // Nov 16, 2008 at 1:45 pm
just try it. its actually very fun, as long as you use alot of slippery lube, and go slow.
and for the young boys and girls who are giving me thumbs down, when you grow up a little, you might try it too, so keep your little minds open if you can.
2 ~Nicole~ // Nov 21, 2008 at 4:21 am
Tell him how you feel about it. If you’re not comfortable, don’t do it. That simple. It’s your body not his. He might feel the same way if he were in your shoes. Tell him you won’t allow it.
3 Dangerous Dog // Nov 24, 2008 at 3:53 am
Just Tell Him But In A Way He Wont React —>
4 Johnny // Nov 24, 2008 at 10:23 pm
Always a good topic for the Weddings section.
Never put up with doing things you don’t want to do. Besides it probably hurts.
5 TK9804 // Nov 27, 2008 at 10:23 pm
Some girls like it - I’m not one of them. It hurt like hell. If you want to try you will need a LOT of lubrication & he will HAVE to go super slow.
And be sure he wears a condom….one time a friend was telling me when he pulled out he had an undigested tomato peel on the end of his penis - EWWWWW.
Let your BF know your boundaries right away.
6 Brennen // Nov 30, 2008 at 2:18 pm
it will happen eventually, first time , or couple of times better lube up good, it will hurt!
7 livinhapi // Dec 1, 2008 at 11:24 am
just don’t do things that you don’t like and just say no!! sex is a lot, lot more enjoyable and better if both parties likes to do the same thing but not if its not.
8 who ?? // Dec 4, 2008 at 9:34 am
talk it out with him.. tell him u arent comfy.. but just for the heck of it.. try once.. who knows u may like it {}
9 interpol // Dec 13, 2008 at 10:50 pm
Ask him if he minds if you stick a carrot up his butt, then see if he still wants to do anal.
10 Vesper // Dec 15, 2008 at 12:18 am
take it slow especially with anal sex. the Anus is very sensitive and can easliy be damaged if you are too tense. I’d suggest asking him to maybe work up to it slowly. try fingers or toys to get used to it. And ALWAYS use lots of lube. If you go too fast you can get a tear and if it gets infected it can be very dangerous. But anal sex can be very enjoyable if you’re ready for it. Just try some soft playing to see if it interests you at all. take things slowly and tell him to be gentle.
11 motchenbachmuffdive // Dec 26, 2008 at 2:18 am
Anal sex is nothing to be scared of. What you are hearing are answers from people who are too scared to try it themselves so they make up these preposterous stories to bring the rest of the world down with them. Anal sex is awesome… The first time you try it, it will blow your mind away! And you will ask yourself why you didn’t do it sooner.
12 Alisha F // Jan 14, 2009 at 12:04 am
ok well very one has there own idea of a great time, but me and my husband enjoy it, while he is doing that you take care of the other end and you will have loads of fun and enjoyment
13 ally // Jan 18, 2009 at 11:04 am
You should do some real research on anal sex instead of asking peoples opinions. There are many websites that offer good advice like this or this or even this
Get the facts and make an educated decision… Some really enjoy it while others dont.
14 deb692006 // Jan 19, 2009 at 2:45 pm
it is not as bad as you think
15 Roni // Jan 21, 2009 at 8:41 pm
Just try it if you dont like it stop
Here are some tips:
Use lots of lubricant
Take it slow
Act relaxed
Act like you are going to poop
Remember if you dont like it then dont do it
16 CJ T // Jan 26, 2009 at 10:03 am
i say just try it…i love it…(very uncomfortable at first)…but will say the anal big “O” is worth it
17 feroz // Jan 28, 2009 at 3:54 pm
Actually anal sex is so enjoyable and fun if you ready to do it. Slowly accept the anal sex. Tell ur bf to use a lot of lube, oil base one. At the beginning ask him to insert his finger, one finger follow by 2 and 3 until u feel ready to accept his penis.
18 anonalus // Feb 7, 2009 at 12:50 pm
It’s tough. Either do it for him, and try to get in the mindset of thinking it’s naughty. Don’t have to do it right away, use lots of lube and you might actually like it.
Only downside is that you hate it and he LOVES it. If you do hate it, tell him right away and he will never bring it up again. Remember to go slow!
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