Luz clarita asked:
ive had this problem since i started having sex (15yrs old) i am now 20, i was with the father of my daughter for 5 years & we tried everything such as different positions and nothing. The only time that i can have an orgasm is when he performs oral sex on me. what can i do to have an orgasm while having sex? and do i have a problem?
8 responses so far ↓
1 Lalaith // Feb 18, 2010 at 2:40 am
First of all, the fact that you can have orgasms, is a good thing, it shows that you don’t have a problem. Sex is mostly a mind game. Perhaps you find oral sex much more exciting than penetration, so you persuade your body to act accordingly. Apart from that, you should work more with your clitoris, since that’s where the pleasure is coming from. Try different positions, hand rubbing, even “toys”, whatever works for you. And of course relax and enjoy, stress can ruin everything.
2 Jasmine // Feb 21, 2010 at 8:25 am
hmmm i think this is a big problem 0_0
you’re pretty much screwed!!! you should just get a gf to please you =D
worked for me! and tell the guy to suck on your nipples it feels bomb lmao!
3 Kite Flyer // Feb 24, 2010 at 2:53 pm
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4 chacoa // Feb 27, 2010 at 7:19 pm
your clitoris needs to be stimulated for you to have an orgasm. during intercourse, it’s not always easy for this to happen.
try it with you on top… lean forward a bit so you can kind of control how much stimulation your clitoris is getting. you might try more of a grinding motion than an up-and-down one.
you could also try having him rub your clitoris while you have sex… this might work best if he is approaching you from behind or from the side.
and if nothing seems to work… well, that’s ok. just have oral sex either before or after you have intercourse, and that way you both have a good time. there’s nothing wrong with taking turns.
5 rich a // Feb 27, 2010 at 8:15 pm
try being a man with this problem .do you masturbate alot your body might have gotten use to you doing it yourself .If you were a man i would say i know the feeling i can only cum during oral make having sex not even worth it after 2 hrs i give up lol .
6 Counsellor Oneil // Mar 1, 2010 at 9:13 pm
Have you tried woman on top position ensuring good friction of your clit with his penis ? This would surely give you orgasm.
7 evieee // Mar 4, 2010 at 9:21 pm
Your clitoris isn’t being stimulated enough during plain intercourse. I have this same problem. There is nothing wrong with you! A lot of women have the same problem. Ask him to rub your clit while hes inside of you.
Thats what my bf does.
8 BrunetteBarbie101 // Mar 7, 2010 at 9:04 pm
don’t worry this is a common problem. when preforming oral sex on a woman the clitoris is stimulated and that’s why you orgasm but during normal intercourse the clitoris isn’t stimulated. women get most of their orgasms from oral sex. some women never have orgasms during intercourse
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