ArmyImp asked:
Just curious. I’m in a very close and loving relationship and just want to find the best ways to please my woman even more. Size is not an issue, but I was just curious if I should focus more on oral sex over intercourse. What techniques are the most preferred by women? Do most women truly enjoy getting their anus licked (seriously, this is what many of my friends and their girlfriends have stated)? Are there any new or “better” positions for receiving oral sex or intercourse for my special lady? Answers open to both male and female genders. Thanks alot (and please note that I am not trying to be perverted. Just trying to please my woman as much as humanly possible)!!!
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8 responses so far ↓
1 J F // Mar 1, 2010 at 7:45 pm
Every woman is different. In my opinion, I could take or leave the oral.
2 Thomas, knower of all // Mar 6, 2010 at 12:11 am
Oral until the heavy breathing continues at a steady rate - and then a nice banging for the grand finale. If timed right, the actual banging need take only a few minutes for both of you to achieve orgasms
3 Steve C // Mar 7, 2010 at 3:44 pm
dont lick her butt until you know her for A LONG TIME, dude. lol, seriously, it will FREAK her out if she isn’t totally into it.
but yeah, many girls seem to prefer oral sex, but it’s usually because whomever they’re with they aren’t comfortable enough with emotionally to get maximum pleasure out of actual sex, or their partner is no good in the sack, or they’ve got a lot of hang ups, etc etc.
the best answer to this kind of stuff is *always* to ASK her about it.
no one here can tell you what your girl likes, that’s for certain.
check out “the guide to getting it on” for some very informative and hilarious technique suggestions
4 amiaskan // Mar 8, 2010 at 10:26 pm
I agree. Ask her. Every woman is different anyway. Best bet to please her is start hours before. Foreplay doesn’t start in the bedroom. The mood for great sex and pleasing her starts hours before by things you say and do.
5 calalily4596 // Mar 9, 2010 at 9:52 pm
Please!!! You have to know this question will not have one right answer. If you want to know what works for your woman, pay attention as you do what you do. She’ll let you know. Yes some women like to get thier ass likked, but so do some men, even straight guys, because that area can be very sensitive. Work on that tongue and mouth thing though, even if your girl hates oral, she’ll love it if you get good with your mouth on other parts of her body and everyone loves a really great kiss!
6 cancel // Mar 12, 2010 at 12:48 am
Ask your women what she likes!
7 tiffany k // Mar 14, 2010 at 10:06 pm
intercourse
8 GirlsTellAll.com // Mar 16, 2010 at 7:04 am
As most people have said here it really depends on the woman. The most important phrase to remember is “you can use your tongue to get women in bed… and use it to keep them there”
When I survey the thousand women for writing a book on sexuality here’s the numbers the percentage of women that like oral sex:
48% all the time
37% said sometimes what I would like other things also
15% said yes, but I think that most guys are not very good at it
Being good at oral sex makes a lot of women very very happy.
You ask are there any better positions. Having her lay in a mission style position while both your hands are on her nipples and your tongue is on the clit is a sure winner. Most guys go at this like a dog licking up a bowl of water…. communicate with her….. ask her what feels the best….. tell her to instruct you thoughtout go to the left …right harder softer…. when you have learned her particular spot stay on it.
Anal licking… what a question….. I would say that most women do not like this…. consider it dirty….. on the other hand there are some women it just totally go freaking crazy on it. I would approach this cautiously and maybe the around that area and say … Does this feel okay…. and move a little closer….. then a little more. Keep getting her response. Of course any women I’ve ever been with that like this also like anal sex….
Mark Burnett
author - GirlsTellAll.com
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