UNCCHgirl asked:
me and my boyfriend want to have anal sex and we know the risks and all of that and know to use a condom and lube. But my question is, he has a bent penis… it bends up and a little to the left. I was wondeirng if that would make it hurt more or if there is a better position to do it in because of that… I have had it done before but with someone with a normal penis… Anyone have any tips or thoughts about it (other than “thats gross”) it would be very appreciated.
Thanks!
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1 nhmouse // Jan 22, 2010 at 7:27 am
have your boyfriend give you a good warm water enema before anal sex. this will relax the rectal muscles and clean that area before sex.use lots of lube and bend over something so that your bottom sticks up in the air.it will hurt a bit but not to much. have him go slowley.
2 vicseo // Jan 25, 2010 at 6:17 pm
Begin with the purchase of a small sized dildo with appropriate sterile lubricant [KY is okay] and practice stretching your rectal muscle by inserting the dildo into your anus very gradually. By stretching the rectal muscle, you can lessen the possibility of breaking and bleeding of small blood vessals surround the sphinchter muscle.
And prior to the actual anal engagement with your boyfriend, take a cleansing enema to removal excess fetal material from your rectum. There is no need to use a condom for anal sex and since your rectum is clean, you can even engage in oral sex upon his penis and not worry about tasting any foul odors. Begin with anal engagement while you are in the doggie position; not the missionary position which is more painful. After a few sessions, you may well enjoy this new sexual encounter and perhaps pass on regular coital sex and attendant birth control.
Good luck!
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