SexPress Yourself

Lady Lynn asked:

I don’t want to wear the typical lingerie + some kind of animal ears “slutty costume”, but something different that not everyone sees at halloween…..

I’ve been a sexy magician once, with the short shorts, tail coat, top hat and fish net stockings before and I really liked it cause my boobs weren’t hanging out but it was still sexy….so something like that?

Hannah asked:

I am always looking for new and different ways of masturbating. I can never find a good answer to this question, so I am asking it again. What are some good homemade masturbation toys that women have used and should work? I would love a mind-blowing orgasm here folks! : ) Thanks!
I realize that everyone is different. I am just looking for some new things to try…

Me Me asked:

ideas, websites, homemade toys, ETC…

Phoenix Delray asked:

Sex lube and anal sex are often thought of as one entity; you cannot have one without the other. Lube is crucial if you want to engage in anal sex with you partner, especially if it is your first time. The anus and rectum are naturally tight areas, but they are designed to expand, so with some work and conditioning it is possible to make it comfortable.

The idea of anal sex is rarely talked about in most cases and is even illegal in some countries. That part of the body has always been a taboo topic which is why so many people are uneducated about the proper way to go about having anal sex. If you do not take the right precautions, you can have a lot of complications from it.

In addition to investing in some sex lube, it is a great idea to start out the process with some anal sex toys. There are three major types of anal sex toys and you should be sure to use sex lube on all of them.

1. Butt Plugs. Butt plugs are also referred to as anal plugs and usually have a very distinct shape. Generally, they look like a diamond, have a thin neck and a base that flares out to prevent it from slipping into the rectum. If it goes too far, like into the rectum, it can cause really bad infections. Butt plugs bulge out in the middle to keep it secured in the anus, and in men, this is what stimulates the prostate. There are many different sizes and models of butt plugs, so take the time to shop around and find one that suits your specific needs.

2. Anal Beads. Anal beads are arguably the most important thing to purchase if you are planning on having anal sex with your partner for the first time. Anal beads are a great way to work your way up to being loose and comfortable to enjoy the act of anal sex. The beads are what cause the muscles in your anus to contract which will make the entry of the penis much more enjoyable. This motion alone can send people into an orgasm without having to even go any further. Anal beads come in a variety of shapes, sizes and materials, so shop around for what will work for you.

3. Anal Dildos. Dildos come in any size, but it is a good idea to start with a thinner one and work you way up in size if you have never had anal sex. These function well for anal sex preparation or even just for anal masturbation.

Josh asked:

anyone?

Holla101 asked:

I plan on having anal sex soon, I know gross right, but no judgments please. I’m afraid that my anus won’t be clean enough and don’t won’t to be embarrassed in front of my boyfriend. I read about using an ear syringe filled with water but can I use vinegar and water? Kind of like a douche I guess. Or can I use like water and lemon juice? Or does anyone have any other suggestions? Thanks in advance.

Steve McQueen asked:

Had unprotected anal sex but pulled out well before I ever finished and released no where near her vag or ass. What are the odds of pregnancy? Thanks.
she got her period on time and it is acting like a normal period. Should i buy a home pregnancy test?
She got her period 5 days later after we did it and it was on time, not late.

Malicious asked:

And not just any masturbation…I have the worst kind. Not only do I use my hand, but I also use other things, like homemade toys..I know that its sick, but after 3 years of doing it, I just got comfortable with the idea.
And thats not the half of it, the toys would be made of latex, and I have family history of being allergic to latex, I’ve recently noticed this after some serious irritation after masterbation…
Im now 16 years old…I feel as if I need to stop, and I know I can if I really want to, but have I gone in too deep? should I give up the toys? will my drive be better? will life be better?
and if I actually do stop, what will I fill that time in with?

redbluewhite_009 asked:

I am currently employed as a legal prostitute of Las Vegas, Nevada (and yes, I am a legal prostitute). With the economy as slow as it is, I have increased my prices to make ends meet. Anal sex has always been a service I have provided, however upon the raised prices the customer requests have become more prominent. It was not a regular practice for me previously but I am wondering how to increase my comfort. I have suffered severe pain due to the nightly abuse of my back end. Thank you.

Anal sex for many couples is a big step in their relationship. It shows a sign of love and above all, trust. The problem for many couples is how to make anal sex more comfortable for both of you. Many couples are worry that anal sex may be painful. However, anal sex can be quite pleasurable for both partners. The muscles and nerves around the anus are extremely sensitive which can result in a major orgasmic experience. If you and your partner are planning to experiment with anal sex, here are a few tips on making your experience a good one.

Breath, don’t forget to breath, relax put on some smooth romantic music, music that will make you, just relax. Light some candles, set the mood. It also wouldn’t help to have a nice massage in the beginning to get the juices flowing.

The use of a Personal Lubricant is very important when engaging in anal sex (You can even try a lube with Benzocaine that will numb the area and make it less painful). This way there is no skin on skin rubbing. This could cause rashes, abscesses or worse even PAIN, to which you may never try this again. Here are some personal lubricants that we recommend that are specifically for anal sex. The lubricants are thicker than average for more safer and comfortable anal sex.

AnalEse – Anal lubricant that contains Benzocaine to reduce the initial discomfort of insertion while its lubricating properties allow ease of penetration.

AstroGlide Shooters Anal Lube - Each package contains six individually wrapped lube applicators that can be inserted where you want before you play. Allows for no mess application. This lube is a water-based anal lubricant that is thick enough and long lasting for a pleasurable anal sex experience.

China Anal Balm – This lubricating cream contains the maximum amount allowed of Benzocaine which takes the sting out of anal sex. This is the strongest over the counter formula of Benzocaine. The numbing effect lasts between 10-20 minutes. Cherry scented flavored and oil free for ease of removal.

Start out slow. Be gentle. Do not force anything. Let it come naturally. Try using a finger at first then a small anal vibrator or anal plug to start with before having anal intercourse with your partner. Take your time be gentle, make this comfortable for you and your partner. Take it in steps, with each session you will gradually become more comfortable and be able to enjoy yourself with your partner.

Last and most important “COMMUNICATE” Talk to your partner. If it doesn’t feel good try it another way. If you need to slow down say slow down. Communication is the key. By following these steps you and your partner will be able to relax, breath, lube, and communicate to the point of ” No accidents.”