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MATURE ANSWERS ONLY PLEASE! What’s the most effective way of female masturbation?

March 14th, 2010 · 10 Comments · Homemade Masturbation Toys

lestats_fave_fledgling asked:

Hello

I’ve always percieved female masturbation as wrong and dirty but now I’ve come to realise it’s a necessary and natural part of life! Kinda new to it all it just seems so easy for guys though but I wouldn’t know where to begin! I don’t own any sex toys and refuse to watch porn so in that knowledge, any tips please?

Thanks look forwards to your advice, you all rock!
Cheers for the advice so far dudes, keep it coming!

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10 responses so far ↓

  • 1 ranorris87 // Mar 18, 2010 at 5:44 am

    try the clit, message it for a while

  • 2 htowngirl2627 // Mar 21, 2010 at 11:27 am

    get “the rabbit” you’ll wonder how you made it this long without one!!

  • 3 jen_doe // Mar 27, 2010 at 5:58 pm

    get a v.i.b.r.a.t.o.r.

  • 4 wind_abhi // Mar 28, 2010 at 11:05 pm

    their is no problem doing it but keep a limit(don’t do it countless times in a day as i do lol)as it affects health.that’s a proven fact.

  • 5 NINA_KNOWS // Mar 31, 2010 at 6:59 pm

    it’s all about clitoral stimulation. if you’ve never done it a vibrating sex toy will be easier for you. once you try it you’ll wonder what you were doing all these years.

  • 6 joey // Apr 3, 2010 at 10:23 pm

    THING ABOUT THE MAN YOU WOULD WANT INSIDE OF YOU THEN PLAY WITH YOU CLIT THEN ENTER THE TWO FINGERS IN SLOWLY.

    OR JUST EMAIL ME.LOL

  • 7 cay_damay // Apr 6, 2010 at 4:54 am

    You refuse to watch porn, but do you refuse to read erotica? It’s a nice non-exploitative way to get turned on, and there’s plenty out there written by and for women. If you don’t want to do this, think up the hottest fantasy you can about having sex with whomever you want, be it boyfriend, husband, Johnny Depp, someone who doesn’t exist, whatever makes you happy! Start by touching yourself, seeing how you feel when you touch your vagina, or labia surrounding the vagina, or clitoris. So much of this is about experimenting to see what you like personally, so it’s hard to give advice, but the quickest way to orgasm for most is stimulation of the clitoris. Don’t be disappointed if you don’t come the first time, or even the fifth time, you try this, but keep having regular sessions with yourself until you get that wonderful orgasmic feeling…good luck!

  • 8 ldfyes // Apr 6, 2010 at 8:11 pm

    For men masturbation is mainly all visual. Thats why all the porn. But for women its more emotional. So if you are refering to masturbation and achieving orgasm buy something that will stimulate your mind romatically……and make sure you have a good vibrator nearby

  • 9 Katie // Apr 7, 2010 at 12:09 am

    My advice is just to start. You will know what feels good and what doesn’t. Once you get over the initial “this is wrong” concept, you will begin to enjoy it more. The more you do it the better you get and the less it bothers you. It just takes time and practise. There is not wrong way to do it. If what your doing is getting the job done, then keep doing it. Relax and have fun.

  • 10 Tiff // Apr 8, 2010 at 5:53 pm

    I never master bated until I got a toy. Now it happens all the time. I bought just a simple little pocket rocket & laid on the bed completely naked. Got brand new batteries so that the effect would be the best. I laid completely back on the bed & let the pocket rocket do his job. The higher you get legs & the farthest apart the better the outcome.

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