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		<title>Strict Leather Sling and Stirrups Keeps Her Legs Spread Open</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Imagine having your partner's legs spread wide, giving you easy access to the goodness that lies in between? With the leather sling and stirrups combination, you'll be able to use a premium leather item to put your partner in the position that you want.]]></description>
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<p>Imagine having your partner&#8217;s legs spread wide, giving you easy access to the goodness that lies in between? With the leather sling and stirrups combination, you&#8217;ll be able to use a premium leather item to put your partner in the position that you want. What will you do, though, with those legs spread wide? Will you use a massager on them? Will you give them the oral sex of a lifetime? Will you proceed to penetrate and pound them into the next decade? The choices are up to you and the only thing your partner can do is spread &#8216;em and anticipate?</p>
<p><strong>Specifications</strong>: The sling and stirrups are made of high quality leather. The thigh cuffs measure 27.5&#8243; in length and 2&#8243; in width. The ankle cuffs measure 14.5&#8243; in length and 2.25&#8243; in width. The head and neck padding measures 11&#8243; in width and 6&#8243; in height.</p>
<p><strong>How to Apply</strong>:</p>
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<li>Place the head/neck padding around your partner&#8217;s head.</li>
<li>Place the thigh cuffs around your partner&#8217;s thighs. The cuffs are connected to the neck pad using a quicklink and belt buckle system. Use the thin strap through the metal loop and belt to secure the cuffs to the thighs.</li>
<li>Perform the same procedure with the ankle cuffs. The ankle cuffs are connected to the neck pad using a quicklink, 19&#8243; chain and belt buckle system. Secure the ankle cuffs to your partner using the thin strap through the metal piece and belt.</li>
<li>Once those legs are spread apart, the rest is up to you. Enjoy!</li>
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<td><em><img title="5 of 5 Stars!" src="http://www.extremerestraints.com/images/stars_5.gif" alt="5 of 5 Stars!" border="0" /> [Rated 5 of 5 Stars!]</em> <strong>by Bad Slut</strong></td>
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<td valign="top">The rings were an excellent idea. My man also added a collar to keep me from moving. Now he can whip my breasts, my vagina, and my ass to get my skin and my insides red hot. If I beg for forgiveness, he will also use my pussy to relieve his pent-up pressure. I love it all!</td>
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<td><em><img title="5 of 5 Stars!" src="http://www.extremerestraints.com/images/stars_5.gif" alt="5 of 5 Stars!" border="0" /> [Rated 5 of 5 Stars!]</em> <strong>by slut jamie</strong></td>
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<td valign="top">I love having my master put me in the Sling and Stirrups.My master then has me helpless and proceeds to pound my ass which is spread wide open for him to use and abuse which he does.My Master loves to use this on me so he can deliever alot of pain to me.</td>
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<td><em><img title="5 of 5 Stars!" src="http://www.extremerestraints.com/images/stars_5.gif" alt="5 of 5 Stars!" border="0" /> [Rated 5 of 5 Stars!]</em> <strong>by</strong></td>
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<td valign="top">This setup is just amazing! I love feeling helpless and having my horny cunt on display. It really permits me to mentally be the horny little fuckslut I want to be. My cunt just aches for more and more penetration when I am restrained in this, and as such it permitted me my first gang bang! Great liberating toy!</td>
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<td><em><img title="5 of 5 Stars!" src="http://www.extremerestraints.com/images/stars_5.gif" alt="5 of 5 Stars!" border="0" /> [Rated 5 of 5 Stars!]</em> <strong>by satisfied wife</strong></td>
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<td valign="top">When we first tried this sling, I found that it put too much pressure on my neck if I relaxed my legs to enjoy a deep fucking. When John build a padded bench with a built-in ring to hold the section that goes behind neck, it became the perfect orgasm inducer for me. John put it in our special bedroom (we keep one for sleeping and another one for sex). He added circle hooks high on the wall and behind the bench. Chains from the wall hooks keep my legs apart while I am cuffed to the hooks behind the bench. Sometimes he blindfolds me and leaves me like that while playing a sex video with the sound turned up. I must say that I am very comfortable in the sling, although my pussy is dripping with anticipation and aching for a finger, tongue, or hard dick. He did this last night, coming in after what seemed like hours and fucking me three times. I couldn&#8217;t believe his stamina when he dumped three huge loads in my gratefull pussy. I found out where he got his stamina when he removed the blindfold, and I saw two of his friends naked with still hard dicks. I was shocked at first, but my pussy told my mouth to ask them to fuck me again. And they did again, and again, and I lost count.</td>
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<td valign="top">A fantastic piece of kit, what can i say this has really spiced up our sex life. Its well made and well worth it. Ideal for restraining my girlfriend during sex, allowing great access for me and friends, buy it!!!</td>
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		<title>Doctor Visit Fantasy &#8211; Let&#8217;s Role Play Tonight!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Sep 2012 17:41:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[My wife played the patient role and I played the doctor role and assistant role.  She walked into the office to the front desk to check in, all dressed in a short sexy skirt and tight red shirt.  I guided her back to the room and had her sit on the table.  I sat next to her in a chair which made it so the camera could get both of us in the shot easier.

I interviewed her as an assistant would asking why she's here and any concerns she has.  She mentioned she was having issues getting orgasms with a penis and she would like to try anal sex possibly a Double Penetration some day. 

So after the interview I got up and told her I would now go get the doctor if she could undress and put the robe on.

As I left I closed the door, but left it cracked open enough that I could watch her undress.  I have to tell you that was very sexy!]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.sexpressyourself.com/sex-role-play/doctor-visit-fantasy-lets-role-play-tonight/attachment/papsmear/" rel="attachment wp-att-423"><img class="wp-image-423 aligncenter" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px;" title="papsmear" src="http://www.sexpressyourself.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/papsmear.png" alt="" width="289" height="339" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: center;">It&#8217;s that time of year again&#8230; time for your annual visit to the ladies doctor to get your pussy checked.  You strip naked, put on the paper cover, lay down and spread eagle.  You get poked a little and he sticks his fingers in as far as they will go.  Fun times right?</p>
<p>Now, be honest here&#8230; have you ever been turned on a little bit knowing a strange man is head level at your freshly shaven pussy?  Have you ever dreamed about having sex with your doctor?  Or getting an orgasm while he fingers you?</p>
<p>It&#8217;s time to role play!!!</p>
<p>My wife and I did this a few weeks ago and it was HOT HOT HOT!</p>
<p>It was a weekend and my office was closed so it was a perfect scenario.  We took a folding table, soft 3&#8243; camping mattress, a sheet, robe and a few sex toys: rabbit vibrator, pussy spreader like the doctors use to look inside which you can buy online for a few bucks (made it a lot more realistic and fun!).</p>
<p>We set up the room with the table and put the mattress on top to be more comfortable and of course had the video camera!</p>
<p>Action!!!</p>
<p>My wife played the patient role and I played the doctor role and assistant role.  She walked into the office to the front desk to check in, all dressed in a short sexy skirt and tight red shirt.  I guided her back to the room and had her sit on the table.  I sat next to her in a chair which made it so the camera could get both of us in the shot easier.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.sexpressyourself.com/sex-role-play/doctor-visit-fantasy-lets-role-play-tonight/attachment/il-7430-f/" rel="attachment wp-att-421"><img class="wp-image-421 aligncenter" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px;" title="IL-7430-F" src="http://www.sexpressyourself.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/IL-7430-F.jpg" alt="Sexy Nurse Outfit" width="260" height="468" /></a>If you want to switch roles here is a sexy nurse outfit!</p>
<p>I interviewed her as an assistant would asking why she&#8217;s here and any concerns she has.  She mentioned she was having issues getting orgasms with a penis and she would like to try <a title="anal sex complications?" href="http://www.sexpressyourself.com/sex-positions/anal-sex-complications/">anal sex</a> possibly a Double Penetration some day.</p>
<p>So after the interview I got up and told her I would now go get the doctor if she could undress and put the robe on.</p>
<p>As I left I closed the door, but left it cracked open enough that I could watch her undress.  I have to tell you that was very sexy!</p>
<p>I gave her a minute then walked in dressed as a doctor now in a white lab coat (which you can also purchase online for cheap).  I introduced myself and then reviewed the notes with her that she had previously discussed with the assistant.</p>
<p>After going over her concerns I had her lay down on the table and I opened up her robe exposing her naked body and double D breasts.  I proceeded to do a breast exam then moved down her stomach then to her legs.  I then asked her to open her legs a little bit so I could take a quick peak at her pussy to see how it looked.  I was just doing a quick body exam at the moment which is awesome!</p>
<p>I then asked her to scoot down to the edge of the table and lay back and spread eagle so her pussy was wide open.  I lubed up the spreader and inserted it deep into her pussy.  Then open up her pussy to about 2 inches in diameter.  (Note:  If you&#8217;ve never seen inside a vagina like this it&#8217;s very cool, well worth the investment of the spreader.)  I made sure to have some light shine in and hot the video camera set behind me so I could get a good shot of inside her vagina.</p>
<p>I then pulled out the spreader and inserted two of my fingers, no gloves of course, and did a finger exam.  I made sure to play with her g-spot a little bit and also used my thumb to rub her clit as well.  I could tell she was getting turned on by now.</p>
<p>After a few minutes of that I now went into addressing her problems of getting orgasm with a penis.  So I first started off with showing her a rabbit vibrating dildo.  Then I inserted the dildo into her vagina and turned it on.  I thrust it in and out of  her dripping pussy and the rabbit ears where ramming her clit.  I only had to do this for a minute or so before she got an orgasm.</p>
<p>I let her relax for a minute while just rubbing her legs and lightly over her pussy then I showed her a 9&#8243; dildo that went over my cock.  Yes, my cock goes inside of it so I have full control!  I then had her get into the doggy sex position for easy access.</p>
<p>I proceeded very slowly to insert the 9&#8243; dildo into her now juicy pussy. (Note:  I don&#8217;t recommend starting with this.  If your wife or girl friend is not use to this size you need to work your way up to it.)</p>
<p>I then began to go a little faster and deeper into her pussy as it loosened up.  It only took a few minutes before all 9 inches where indulged into her pussy.   I then got some lube and put it all over her ass and began fingering her anal.  I only went in to about my second knuckle, just enough to add excitement but not enough to distract from the huge cock.</p>
<p>After only about 30 seconds of inserting my finger into her anal she began flexing and orgasming again.  This time she was a little louder and it lasted a little longer than before.  She was hot and sweaty and thrusting her butt at me to bang harder.  This was the first time we attempted a 9 inch cock and she loved it!  It was so turned on I almost exploded inside the dildo.</p>
<p>I then took off the dildo and she turned around and sucked on my cock like a lolly pop going out of style.  Just before I exploded my cum she stopped and I inserted my penis into her wet and sloppy pussy and banged her hard and fast for about 20 seconds and then let loose on the fire hose and shot cum like it was Niagara Falls!</p>
<p>After cleaning up a bit she sat back down on the table and I asked if we covered everything she needed.  She said &#8220;Thank you for being so thorough in your examination!&#8221;  It was awesome!  We shook hands and told her to come back in a couple of weeks for a follow up and we would address double penetration.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s just say she scheduled her appointment for this weekend <img src='http://www.sexpressyourself.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   I can&#8217;t wait!!!</p>
<p>If you have ever role played tell us your story.  If you want to duplicate our &#8220;Doctor&#8221; version go ahead!  Tell us how it goes!</p>
<p>Here&#8217; to Sexy Role Playing!</p>
<p>Adam P.<br />
&#8220;Just loves sex!&#8221;</p>
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		<title>An Orgasm a Day Keeps the Doctor Away</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tell your wife she can’t argue with science: You need to have at least three orgasms a week. More sex means living longer, and one doc claims it can add up to eight years to your life.]]></description>
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<p><em>Tell your wife she can’t argue with science: You need to have at least three orgasms a week. More sex means living longer, and one doc claims it can add up to eight years to your life.</em></p>
<p><a href="http://www.sexpressyourself.com/improve-love-making/an-orgasm-a-day-keeps-the-doctor-away/attachment/images1/" rel="attachment wp-att-432"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-432" style="margin: 10px; border: 2px solid black;" title="images1" src="http://www.sexpressyourself.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/images1.jpg" alt="" width="269" height="187" /></a>At a school reunion last summer, one former classmate looked 10 years younger than the rest of us. Someone finally asked his secret. “Three orgasms a week,” he said, to laughter. Later I asked him if he was serious, and he referred to a study showing that, when all the various scientific claims for improving longevity are fed into one database, you gain two extra years by flossing every night and three years by having more than three orgasms a week. It went against all the negative folk wisdom I’d heard about how having too much sex could drain me of my “chi,” bring on depression, or even lead to a stroke.</p>
<p>As it turns out, the benefits of sex are a factor in all three categories of male mortality — heart disease, cancer, and environmental causes (stress, accident, suicide) — and plenty of scientists are pushing the idea that the more sex you have the longer you’ll live. The Johnny Appleseed of the theory is Michael Roizen, a 62-year-old doctor who chairs the Wellness Institute at the Cleveland Clinic.</p>
<p>“For men, the more the better,” he says. “The typical man who has 350 orgasms a year, versus the national average of around a quarter of that, lives about four years longer.” And more than those extra four years, Roizen says, the men will feel eight years younger than their contemporaries. Is there an optimal number of orgasms for the average man? Roizen suggests, with a straight face, that 700 a year could add up to eight years to your life. This is an ambitious prescription: The average American adult male has sex just 81 times a year.</p>
<p>Roizen’s formula may be new, but the benefits of sex and orgasms have been tracked for years, and there’s some compelling hard evidence to back Roizen’s claims. A Swedish study done in the ’80s found that 70-year-olds who made it to 75 were the ones still having sex, and a Duke University study that followed 252 people over 25 years concluded that “frequency of intercourse was a significant predictor of longevity.”</p>
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<h4><em>Do it now:</em><br />
<em>Have sex for up to 13 minutes. A recent survey from Penn State University in Erie found that seven to 13 minutes of intercourse (from the time the penis enters the vagina until ejaculation) was most enjoyable. Respondents, who consisted of psychologists and doctors, among others, also found that one to two minutes was too short and 14 to 30 minutes too long.</em></h4>
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<p>But the big kahuna of longevity studies was completed just 10 years ago in Wales. British scientists interviewed nearly 1,000 men in six small villages about their sexual frequency, then arranged for all death records to be forwarded so the scientists could record their life spans. Ten years later they determined that men who had two or more orgasms a week had died at a rate half that of the men who had orgasms less than once a month. “Sexual activity seems to have a protective effect on men’s health,” the researchers concluded.</p>
<p>Skeptics will tell you that these studies don’t actually prove that people live longer because of sex. “Maybe healthier people have more orgasms, instead of the other way around,” says Erick Janssen of the Kinsey Institute. His colleague Debby Herbenick points out that the Wales study failed to even ask whether the men were in relationships; science makes a strong case that good marriages improve men’s longevity. “Studies are demonstrating that there are longevity health benefits to sex,” says Beverly Whipple, professor emerita at Rutgers and co-author of the book The Science of Orgasm. “But we can’t say there’s a definite cause and effect.”</p>
<p>Which raises the question: What exactly is the science behind all these studies? An orgasm is a major neurological and physiological event (Alfred Kinsey once described it as “the expulsive discharge of neuromuscular tensions”). The bloodstream is flooded with hormones such as oxytocin and dehydroepiandrosterone (DHEA). At its height just a few minutes after ejaculation, oxytocin may increase bonding, leading people to fall in love, but it also reduces stress and brings on sleep. DHEA is actually a steroid and has been shown to reduce the risk of heart attack in middle-aged men. Both hormones have been shown to reduce depression.</p>
<p>Sex, even as little as once or twice a week, also increases immunoglobulin levels — the stuff in your blood that fights infection and disease — as much as 30 percent higher than in those who abstain.</p>
<p>Interestingly, most orgasm studies blur the line between sex and masturbation, referencing both as “sexual expression.” Roizen believes masturbation is, at the very least, “a good supplement to monogamous sex,” and prostate cancer rates have been proven to directly correlate to frequency of ejaculation. Scientists say ejaculating at least four times a week can reduce one’s risk by up to 30 percent.</p>
<p>Although Roizen’s 700 orgasms per year is unrealistic for most of us, research suggests that two to three orgasms a week will still yield benefits. And yet another study has shown that those having sex three times a week on average appear seven to 12 years younger than their actual ages. Remember that before your next high school reunion.</p>
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<p><em>This article originally appeared in the February 2009 issue of </em><a href="http://archive.mensjournal.com/3-orgasms" target="_blank">Men’s Journal</a>.</p>
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		<title>My Wife Said NO to Sex&#8230; Again!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Feb 2012 04:06:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am soooo sick of my wife not wanting to have sex.  We have been married for over 15 years and I am always the one having to do everything.  Even when I do I have heard the word "NO" so many freaking times I hate that word.  If I had .0001 cent every time she told me no I would be a billionaire.]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am soooo sick of my wife not wanting to have sex.  We have been married for over 15 years and I am always the one having to do everything.  Even when I do I have heard the word &#8220;NO&#8221; so many freaking times I hate that word.  If I had .0001 cent every time she told me no I would be a billionaire.</p>
<p>Thing is she gets orgasms, she seems like she enjoys it when we do, so why wouldn&#8217;t she want it more?  I have ready sooo many blog posts and squidoo lenses about women wishing there  husbands would have sex with them.  They have sex maybe once a month if they are lucky.  My wife can have it whenever she wants and she chooses to have it once a week only cause she knows I want it.  If it was fully up to her it would be once a month.</p>
<p>Well, its about to happen.  From here on out I am making a pledge that I will NEVER ask or initiate  my current wife for sex ever again.</p>
<p>And when she wants it I&#8217;m going to put no feeling or emotion in and just let her pussy pound my cock and when she&#8217;s done I can go on with my day.</p>
<p>She never tries to be sexy anymore, she never dresses up to go on dates, she hates oral sex and won&#8217;t swallow or even let it cum in her mouth.  She won&#8217;t do anal, she hates doggy, she hates any sex position that isn&#8217;t missionary or her on top.  She hates french kissing, or even kissing in general unless it&#8217;s a peck.  So why have I spend 15 years trying to get her to like it???</p>
<p>I always thought when you got married you would satisfy each others sexual needs along with all your needs.  We both grew up virgins, at least she tells me she was but I don&#8217;t think she was, so I waited to have sexual relations with the women of my dreams and it&#8217;s been a waste.  I love sex and I have such high hopes and dreams of how it should be, and it never will be.  It&#8217;s so depressing.</p>
<p>I wish I could of met a women who had the same level of sexual interest as myself.  Take note to all you single people out there.  Before you lock yourself in, make certain you are sexually compatible.  If your already having sex then you should know, but if your not and waiting for the big day then you need to talk about it.  Ask detailed questions of what each others expectations are.  What they are willing and NOT willing to do.  That information would of saved me from a lot of painful, depressing, non sexual years that I could of been living up with someone else.</p>
<p>Anyone else have issues with this?  Husband or wife rejecting you?  Are you wanting to have sex more?  Leave a reply.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s to more sex!</p>
<p>Jake R.</p>
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		<title>Is it a bad thing to want to have sex with your wife?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[So I love to see my wife naked, rub her body, make love to her, lick her pussy... all the above.  To me it's a great bonding experience for the one I love.  Only one problem... she doesn't feel the same way.]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Help!!!  Here&#8217;s the story&#8230;</p>
<p>So I love to see my wife naked, rub her body, make love to her, lick her pussy&#8230; all the above.  To me it&#8217;s a great bonding experience for the one I love.  Only one problem&#8230; she doesn&#8217;t feel the same way.</p>
<p>She enjoys having sex and gets an orgasm 90% of the time, but regardless how good it is she just doesn&#8217;t care for it more than once every two weeks.  She could have an amazing orgasm and then not care for one for weeks.</p>
<p>I certainly don&#8217;t understand it, but then again she doesn&#8217;t understand why I would want it more often than that.  The less we touch each other, make love etc the further away I get from her.  I get to the point I don&#8217;t want to see her naked anymore and I don&#8217;t want to have sex with her anymore.  Only problem is I know once I get to that point then it puts our marriage in jeopardy because we will grow farther and farther apart.</p>
<p>I thought it was a good thing to have a spouse who wants you, thinks your sexy, loves to see you naked, loves to rub your body and give you pleasure.  Isn&#8217;t that a good thing??  Isn&#8217;t it better than thinking she&#8217;s fat and  ugly and turn the lights out when it&#8217;s time for sex?  if you do have sex?</p>
<p>So we fight about this all the time, nonstop.  It&#8217;s now at the point I have a decision to make:</p>
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<li>Do I stop wanting her and live our lives miserable?</li>
<li>or do we divorce and I find someone who&#8217;s wanting that connection?</li>
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<p>She&#8217;s made it clear she will not change.  She does not want more sex, she will not give blow jobs (she licks but that&#8217;s it), she will not do anal, she will not try new positions (it&#8217;s missionary or her on top that&#8217;s it), she will not just get naked for me, she will not just enjoy sex.</p>
<p>She has told me to just enjoy life and what it brings and stop wanting sex, just be happy for what you get.  I don&#8217;t know about you, but that&#8217;s not how I want to live.  I WANT sex.  I WANT a wife who wants sex.  I WANT a blow job.  If I have to settle for what &#8220;what I get&#8221; then this is going to be one miserable rest of my life.</p>
<p>What would you do?  Any suggestions?  Please leave a comment and tell me what you would do or if you have the same problem.</p>
<p>Thanks!</p>
<p>Paul D.</p>
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		<title>Enlarge Your Penis From Home &#8211; Really?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jul 2011 03:36:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Most men have a 6" penis size and visualizing a 10" monster is just a dream come true right? Think of all the fun sex positions you could do with a bigger penis! I don't know about you, but the standing position etc are sometimes difficult to keep the penis in the vagina at all times and gets a little awkward having to put it back in all the time.]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We all know men want a larger penis.  Doesn&#8217;t matter if they already have a 10&#8243; penis, we want it bigger dang it!!!</p>
<p>Most men have a 6&#8243; penis size and visualizing a 10&#8243; monster is just a dream come true right?  Think of all the fun sex positions you could do with a bigger penis!  I don&#8217;t know about you, but the standing position etc are sometimes difficult to keep the penis in the vagina at all times and gets a little awkward having to put it back in all the time.</p>
<p>But imagine another 4 inches&#8230; now that would be amazing right?</p>
<p>So what&#8217;s the scoop on all these penis enlargement pills, patches, and enlargers that just make you shiver just looking at them.  Do they really work?  I have to admit I haven&#8217;t tried most of them, but I have a hunch they have a pretty low success rate.  Otherwise every man on earth would be taking the same pill and we would all have 14 inch penises!!</p>
<p>With that said, I came across a site that teaches natural techniques that you can do right at home.  No pills, No patches, no extenders.. just natural stuff.</p>
<p><a href="http://aaaa16olkph8md4gp8soe42m6j.hop.clickbank.net/" target="_top">Click Here</a> to check it out!</p>
<p>Send me a note if you gain that 4&#8243; you&#8217;ve always wanted!!</p>
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		<title>Do You Like Your Breasts?  Why Not Clone Them!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 29 May 2011 03:20:08 +0000</pubDate>
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				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Maybe the correct question is.. Does your husband or boyfriend like  your breasts?</p>
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<p>Check this out&#8230;</p>
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<p>I did some brief searching on the web and found a few places to order similar product.</p>
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<li><a href="http://www.smooth-on.com/gallery.php?galleryid=262" target="_blank">Option 1</a>:  This gives you pretty much everything you need to do any size project.</li>
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<p>Good luck and enjoy duplicating ALL your body parts <img src='http://www.sexpressyourself.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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