Holla101 asked:
I plan on having anal sex soon, I know gross right, but no judgments please. I’m afraid that my anus won’t be clean enough and don’t won’t to be embarrassed in front of my boyfriend. I read about using an ear syringe filled with water but can I use vinegar and water? Kind of like a douche I guess. Or can I use like water and lemon juice? Or does anyone have any other suggestions? Thanks in advance.
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1 Kal H // Jun 19, 2009 at 8:46 am
There are larger versions of things that look like an ear syringe that are sold at “adult bookstores” or online (search “rectal syringe” or “anal douche”). They work well or you can also use a regular non-medicated (just water) enema. However, don’t start doing enemas all the time, you can become dependent on them and not be able to have a BM without them. You don’t need any additives, plain warm water will do just fine. P.S. You actually mean that your rectum is clean. Your anus is the opening, the rectum is the area past the opening. Also, use a condom and go slowly, with water-soluble lube. Have fun!
2 greseman // Jun 20, 2009 at 5:21 am
have him do the same things he does on your butt that he does when eating u out
3 govicseo // Jun 22, 2009 at 4:20 pm
Warning! The following is an “adult” response which may or may not offend someone’s standards or belief system. In which case, you should not read the following.
Anal sex is quite enjoyable and will take some preprep before engaging in it.
Begin by:
1. Pre-stretching the sphincter muscle by insertion of a medium sized well-lubricated dildo. Do this for at least a week or more prior to anal sex;
2. Self-administering an enema consisting of plain warm water [without any laxative] via a hot water bottle to wash out all fecal matter from within the rectum; stop administering when the expelled water appears clear. Do this about 2-3 hours prior to the act;
3. Asking your bf to shave along the shaft of his organ in order to remove any hair. No hair allows smoother entry of the organ.
4. Using a lot of lubricant [K-Y] on the male organ;
5. Engaging in the doggie position, where you are on your hands and knees and he enter from atop;
6. Using a condom is optional since you are basically very clean inside your rectum and should you engage in oral sex immediately after he climaxes in your anal passageway; use an antiseptic/alcohol wipe on his organ before continuing oral sex.
Good luck!
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