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Interested in trying something new? Do you have burning questions about the how-to’s of anal sex? Backdoor booty is a great way to add an exotic kick to your sack sessions; you just need to make sure you’re doing it safely.

First, make sure you discuss the option openly with your guy – you don’t want to end up doing something that makes either of you uncomfortable. Anal sex is no longer just for gay guys and it’s no longer taboo like it used to be; but you still need to make sure that you and your partner are on the same page about it.

You’ll also need to be prepared with a condom and lots of lube. Even if you’re in a monogamous relationship, a condom is important so that bacteria are not passed between your anus and his penis. Make sure that the condom is removed and replaced (if you use a condom ordinarily) to ensure further cleanliness during vaginal intercourse. The condom should be nonoxynol 9-free to prevent damage to rectal tissue.

Lube. Lube. And more Lube. Unlike the vagina which stretches when prodded and produces natural lubricants to allow for a penis’ entry, the anus is neither elastic nor self-lubricating. And not only that, but the sphincter muscles, the muscles located around the anus and rectum, tend to tense up, making penetration uncomfortable. To alleviate some of the natural clenching that goes on down there, relax and lather on that water-based lube. It’ll make entry easier and more comfortable – for both of you.

This may also help: Go to the bathroom before you try this. We know it’s not pleasant to think about this, but his penis will be going all the way up your rectum (the part that connects your anus (the hole) to your colon), and if you’re not cleaned out properly, then there could be a mess. And you’ll have trouble relaxing if you have to go, which will make penetration more difficult.

Last but not least, have fun! Treading into unknown territory can be erotic and you should enjoy every moment of this new sexual adventure!