So I love to see my wife naked, rub her body, make love to her, lick her pussy… all the above. To me it’s a great bonding experience for the one I love. Only one problem… she doesn’t feel the same way.
She enjoys having sex and gets an orgasm 90% of the time, but regardless how good it is she just doesn’t care for it more than once every two weeks. She could have an amazing orgasm and then not care for one for weeks.
I certainly don’t understand it, but then again she doesn’t understand why I would want it more often than that. The less we touch each other, make love etc the further away I get from her. I get to the point I don’t want to see her naked anymore and I don’t want to have sex with her anymore. Only problem is I know once I get to that point then it puts our marriage in jeopardy because we will grow farther and farther apart.
I thought it was a good thing to have a spouse who wants you, thinks your sexy, loves to see you naked, loves to rub your body and give you pleasure. Isn’t that a good thing?? Isn’t it better than thinking she’s fat and ugly and turn the lights out when it’s time for sex? if you do have sex?
So we fight about this all the time, nonstop. It’s now at the point I have a decision to make:
Do I stop wanting her and live our lives miserable?
or do we divorce and I find someone who’s wanting that connection?
She’s made it clear she will not change. She does not want more sex, she will not give blow jobs (she licks but that’s it), she will not do anal, she will not try new positions (it’s missionary or her on top that’s it), she will not just get naked for me, she will not just enjoy sex.
She has told me to just enjoy life and what it brings and stop wanting sex, just be happy for what you get. I don’t know about you, but that’s not how I want to live. I WANT sex. I WANT a wife who wants sex. I WANT a blow job. If I have to settle for what “what I get” then this is going to be one miserable rest of my life.
What would you do? Any suggestions? Please leave a comment and tell me what you would do or if you have the same problem.
We all know men want a larger penis. Doesn’t matter if they already have a 10″ penis, we want it bigger dang it!!!
Most men have a 6″ penis size and visualizing a 10″ monster is just a dream come true right? Think of all the fun sex positions you could do with a bigger penis! I don’t know about you, but the standing position etc are sometimes difficult to keep the penis in the vagina at all times and gets a little awkward having to put it back in all the time.
But imagine another 4 inches… now that would be amazing right?
So what’s the scoop on all these penis enlargement pills, patches, and enlargers that just make you shiver just looking at them. Do they really work? I have to admit I haven’t tried most of them, but I have a hunch they have a pretty low success rate. Otherwise every man on earth would be taking the same pill and we would all have 14 inch penises!!
With that said, I came across a site that teaches natural techniques that you can do right at home. No pills, No patches, no extenders.. just natural stuff.
Does anyone know of any good masturbation techniques besides using store bought sex toys but I am willing to use homemade sex toys and I absolutely love to stick things in my butt.
can you give me some techniques that i can use when i masturbate?
i can’t buy toys and i don’t have a removable shower head…
are there any positions or techniques you can share?
or some homemade things i can use?
thanks
Okay i’m 24 and i enjoy healthy masturbation and like to watch porn (any good free sight recommendations??) and i need help with making homemade toys. i don’t have a removable shower head or jet. i was using a toothbrush and balloon cover and i was wondering if this was an orgasm: sensation and heavy muscle contractions in lower abs, buttox, and wanting to pull the homemade toy away. is this an orgasm and is it normal? what are they like for you? helpful answers only please!
oh and i pee too. is this normal. i made thiss account to just straight out say it so yeah… and im involved in many activities and is this called squirting??
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This fun and slightly whimsical scenario offers a lot of opportunity for exploration. It starts with the idea (a fad, I’m told, in some places) of combining sushi with nudity, and branches off from there into territory ripe with potential for sensation play. Along the way, it introduces a novel twist on the good old-fashioned nipple clamp.
Sushi for TwoIn some places, there is a tradition involving eating sushi rolls off the body of a naked person. The practice is called “nyotaimori” or “nyataimori” (in Kanji, , from woman, body, and arrangement), and it allegedly has an accompanying ritual that goes along with it. There’s some question about whether or not this is really an art form in Japan or just a fad that appeals to prurient Westerners, but regardless, it’s fun, especially when you dispense with the tradition and add a few twists of your own.
Bring chopsticks, though. We’ll use them later. In fact, you’ll probably want at least two pair handy, even if you’ll be the only one eating the sushi.
Of course, you can’t have naked sushi without sushi and a naked person:
The arrangement of the sushi on the naked person is pretty straightforward. You might want to keep the wasabi and soy sauce in a separate container, though. The sushi itself is part of the sensation play, as it’s often served cold, and many people find the feeling of cold objects on their skin erotic.
Since half the point of sushi is in the display and arrangement, you can arrange the sushi on your partner’s body in any way you find aesthetically pleasing.
Traditionally, the rules of nyotaimori forbid addressing or touching the person upon whose body the sushi is served. Since we’re doing this for fun, that rule goes right out the window. Feel free to stroke and caress your partner during the dinner; in fact, you can run the ends of the chopsticks lightly over sensitive parts of your partner’s body, or if you like warm sake, even rest the sake glass lightly on your partner’s skin. Optionally, you may even blindfold your partner before you begin, to intensify the sensation.
Eating the sushi is only half the fun. As you proceed, you can integrate more and more sensation into the experience, touching your partner lightly or running your chopsticks over your partner’s body. Once you’re done with the sushi, then you can really start playing.
Take a small rubber band and loop it over a pair of chopsticks near one end, to hold them together moderately tightly. Then take another small rubber band and loop it more loosely over the other end of the chopsticks. You can then use the chopsticks as a kind of nipple clamp, by spreading them apart and placing them over your partner’s nipple:
The tightness is easily controlled in two ways: first, by how many turns of rubber band you wrap around the chopsticks at the far end, and second, by how far you move the rubber band down the chopsticks (moving the rubber band closer to the end increases pressure; moving the rubber band closer to the center of the chopsticks decreases pressure).
You can experiment with a variety of other forms of stimulation as well. One good toy in keeping with the overall theme is bamboo skewers, which are thin bamboo rods pointed at one end. These can be dragged slowly over the skin, or pressed into the top of a clamped nipple. The neck, behind the ears, the sides, and over and around the breasts are good places to run the skewers.
Hot and cold are also logical choices; keep some ice cubes and some hot sake handy (the small ceramic sake cups transfer warmth well).
What you’ll need Sushi (whatever variety you prefer), a couple of sets of chopsticks, some small rubber bands, and a small dish for your wasabi and soy sauce are a good place to start. Those are only the beginning, though. You can integrate all kinds of sensation play into the experience, so you may want to keep some of the various tools and toys talked about in the sensation play sections on hand.
Bamboo skewers are cheap and easy to find at any grocery store, and fit the flavor and theme of the sushi meal nicely.
Some people really, really like the sensation of cold. In fact, I’ve known many people who enjoy bringing ice cubes into the bedroom; the next logical step up, I think, is to make sex toys out of ice.
This is actually very easy to do. With only a few supplies you probably already have lying around, you can make a simple dildo from ice. You can use it the way one would normally use a dildo; being penetrated by ice offers an intense sensation that some people really like. Or, you can use it the way you’d use a more conventional ice cube, running it over and across your body (or your partner’s).
I’ve heard of people making frozen sex toys out of things like Kool-Aide or fruit juice. Generally speaking, it’s wise not to use anything containing sugar internally; in some women, this can lead to rather unpleasant yeast infections. Sticking with plain water for this sort of thing is best.
Always run an ice cube or ice dildo under cool tap water before you use it for penetration. Make sure the surface of the ice has started to melt. This prevents it from freezing any moisture on any part of your body it may touch; you don’t want the “tongue frozen to a cold metal bar” effect, particularly in parts of your body more sensitive than your tongue!
Moving beyond the basics: How to make an ice dildo
If you and your lover like using ice, you can create your own sex toys made of ice just by using a condom, water, and some ingenuity.
Start with the cardboard tube from a roll of paper towels. With a pair of scissors, cut the tube lengthwise all the way down its length. Roll the tube to the diameter you’d like the finished dildo to be, and wrap tape around it to hold it at that size. Take a condom and put it into the top of the cardboard tube, and then overlap the top half inch or so of the condom around the edge of the tube as shown:
You can use a lubricated or unlubricated condom. If you use a lubricated condom, avoid spermicidally lubricated ones, because the spermicidal lubricant can get funky when it freezes.
Carefully fill the condom to the top with water. Stand the tube upright in the freezer, and wait a few hours. You can probably find all kinds of things to do to entertain yourself while you’re waiting; if not, you can always visitthis fine Web site.
In a few hours, the water will freeze. Remove the tube from the freezer. Carefully lift the top edge of the condom from around the tube and tie it in a knot to keep the water from leaking out as the ice melts. Then cut the tape holding the tube closed and remove the ice dildo.
When you’re finished, the ice dildo should look like the one shown below. If you like, you can take extra steps to make a fancier dildo by doing things to the cardboard tube before you place the condom in it. For example, if you take thick cord and wrap it in a spiral on the inside of the tube, the finished ice dildo will have a spiral ridge in it. If you take a small sheet of bubble wrap cut to the same width as the inside circumference of the tube and slide it into the tube before you put the condom in it, the finished ice dildo will have a dimpled, textured surface.
Use the dildo without removing it from the condom; as the ice melts, it will create a layer of water inside the condom that creates a very interesting sensation.
Remember, always run the ice dildo under cool water before you use it. This removes any frost from its surface and starts the outer edge of the ice melting. You don’t want to use ice internally until it has started to melt and has a thin layer of water on its surface, or the ice may freeze to your skin.
If you want to get more fancy still, you can use a dildo-shaped ice mold to create frozen dildos. For the greatest level of personalization, the same kits that let you create a dildo from a person’s penis can also be used to create an ice dildo; simply fill the mold, once it’s made, with water instead of the provided rubber material. (Depending on your partner’s shape, it may be necessary to modify the mold after it’s made by carving out any undercuts to help the ice dildo slide out more easily.)
Want your ice cubes or ice dildos to look better? If you boil water and then let it cool before freezing it, the ice will be transparent rather than cloudy.
Cloudiness in ice cubes is the result of dissolved air in the water, which is displaced and forms thousands of tiny bubbles when the water freezes. Boiling the water drives out the dissolved air, which produces ice that is transparent when it freezes.
